New Years Eve Kiss

Keep one eye on the countdown and the other on the person beside you. Ten becomes five, the room or street joins in, midnight arrives and the first moment of the new year is sealed with a kiss while everybody else is cheering, hugging or trying to remember the words to Auld Lang Syne. The midnight kiss works because the timing belongs to everyone. It can be romantic, affectionate or gleefully silly, but it is never an entitlement created by the calendar. A warm conversation before midnight beats a surprise advance at zero, and choosing not to kiss anyone is an equally valid way to start the year. Decide where you want to celebrate, confirm that both people are enthusiastic and plan the journey home before crowds and late-night changes begin. Large public events may need tickets, identification and substantial advance booking; London’s main fireworks celebration, for example, uses official ticketed viewing areas. Add this to your list with the right person and let the countdown create the timing, not the consent.